TIP #3
Know Thyself and Act
Accordingly
The importance of recognizing your
limitations, but not being defined by them
In
my Ethics class this semester, we discussed the Greek idea of knowing oneself
and acting according to this knowledge. Aristotle believes that in order to
become a truly virtuous, and therefore “happy” person, one must know and
recognize their desires and limitations and be able to make decisions that do
not surpass these boundaries. (Shout out to Dr. Carreño!)
This
idea applies not only to philosophy, but it is also necessary for any European
traveler to grasp, especially one traveling with a disability. While preparing
to set off on my adventures, I had to assess myself and my limitations. In
doing so, I had to recognize that I would need accommodations and come to terms
with the fact that there may be certain activities in which I could not
participate (such as ice skating or hiking for hours up a mountain).As
difficult as it may be to admit and accept limitations, it is extremely
important to come to terms with the fact before beginning your journey. Because
I knew my limitations before hand, I was able to make plans that would help accommodate
them. For example, I was able to bring a scooter to Austria with me in order to
provide easy travel when walking long distances. Also, I knew that I needed to
live on the first floor of the building because there is no elevator. Simple
ideas such as these can make or break a trip for a little person or any person
with a disability.
It
may seem as if these limitations hold a negative connotation. When you are
limited it is seen as something you cannot do and something that cannot be overcome.
And although it is important to be aware of your limitations, I am here to tell
you that it is possible to overcome them, when it is appropriate. (Although
this may be confusing with Aristotle’s idea that you should not surpass your
limitations, if it is detrimental to your moral virtue. But, in this situation
pushing beyond your limitations brings you closer to the moral virtues of
courage and perseverance and therefore Aristotle would encourage these acts!)

I
had the opportunity to overcome my limitations (and grow in virtue) while I was
visiting Rome. As a little person, it is difficult to walk long distances, and
it is also difficult to climb stairs. However, in the adrenaline of a moment and
the encouragement of a good friend, I climbed the 330 spiral stairs up to the
top of the dome (cupola) of Saint Peter’s Basilica in Rome. I never thought I
could accomplish such a colossal victory, (due to the fact that it can be
difficult to climb a normal set of stairs), but I did it for myself because I
knew I needed to experience being on top of Rome. I’m not going to say it wasn’t
difficult, because it was, however, I pushed beyond the limitations that I had
set on myself and I persevered through the pain and difficulty to reach my
goal. And even a month later, that moment is one of my favorite memories from
this semester because I did not think I could do it. But I did, despite all
odds, and I came down a stronger and a more confident person, in my self and my
abilities.
I
am not simply telling this story in order to brag about my accomplishments
(because that wouldn’t be very virtuous!), but I want to use this story to
encourage others that limitations should not stop you from challenging yourself
and from achieving what you want.
Robert M. Hensel, a man who was
born with Spina Bifida and holds the Guinness world record for the longest
non-stop wheelie in a wheelchair, said “my disability has opened my eyes to see
my true abilities.” And this is so true for me and for many people with a
disability, because if I wasn’t a little person, if I didn’t have my
disability, I would not be the person I am today. And because of this, I have
the strength and the courage to achieve my goals, however small, like climbing
the cupola, and to tackle Europe one city at a time.
So
please, I want to encourage and challenge all of you to not let your
limitations define you. Even people without disabilities have limitations or
set limitations for themselves. They may not be physical limitations, but
people often constrain themselves to their knowledge or their fears. Don’t limit
yourself! Push beyond what you know and push beyond what you fear and tackle
the world, even in small tasks, like climbing 330 stairs, or climbing to the
top of a mountain, or jumping into the Gaming creek! It is okay to be scared,
but don’t let those fears define you and don’t let them limit you from
experiencing and learning from the world around you.